"I want them to get proper nutrition," "I don't want them to lose weight"—these feelings become very strong when you're providing care. Of course, these are very important, but meals have other important roles besides just providing nutrition.

Meals are also a time for enjoyment.

"I wonder what's for dinner today?" "Today it's my favorite curry!" Mealtimes like these become one of the daily joys.

A person's meals reflect their history.

A person's favorite food is a reflection of their life. A taste they've loved since childhood, memories of meals shared with family—eating what you love means more than just nutrition.

"Being able to eat it" builds confidence.

When your appetite is low, the goal isn't just to "eat everything." The simple joy of "I was able to enjoy my favorite foods today" can also bring great satisfaction.

Instead of saying, "Can't you eat a little more?", say, "You managed to eat a lot today." That one simple phrase can completely change the atmosphere of mealtime.

Consult with a care concierge.